My boyfriend is a game programmer and he works maybe 70 hours per week at a startup. I never see him, we always fight, and even though he is one of the smartest people I know he insists that he is stupid and can’t complete with the other coders. I feel his mind is slowly deteriorating. He used to be happy. Now he is never able to get out of his depressed state. He had become paranoid, believing his boss hired someone to follow him and is constantly checking around him. With now evidence he believes the whole office is plotting against him. I’m scared. What has this industry done to the man I loved? I need help but I don’t know where to begin.